PrEP-shaming

PrEP-shaming

Real quick, for those of you unfamiliar with what PrEP is, here is a basic explanation. The initials stand for Pre-exposure Prophylaxis, and it refers to an HIV prevention strategy where HIV-negative individuals take anti-HIV medications before coming into contact with HIV to reduce their risk of becoming infected. The medication works to prevent HIV from … Continue reading →

Aftercare – Not an afterthought

Aftercare – Not an afterthought

Occasionally it’s bound to happen. You’re going to hook up with somebody off a kink hookup site whose level of experience is a bit less than what is publicized in their profile. So be it – it just means you get the opportunity to provide a mind-blowing first time for someone and that can be … Continue reading →

Divide by 7

Divide by 7

The title of this article refers to a term my husband created. It’s a particular approach he takes when somebody shares an involved kink fantasy they are propositioning with us.  My husband has a Tumblr page that many of you have seen; and if you haven’t, please have a NSFW look: Sir Dart’s PitBull . There you will find many pictures … Continue reading →

Tonight – Toy Drive with Kinky Klaus

Tonight – Toy Drive with Kinky Klaus

Tonight we’ll be heading out to MJ’s Tavern for the Knight Hawks toy drive benefiting kids and families serviced by Access. All participants who bring an unwrapped child’s toy will receive a raffle ticket for a chance to win an adult toy  🙂 There will of course be Jello shots as well as photo opportunities with Kinky Klaus. The event … Continue reading →

Being a Carnival Ride

Being a Carnival Ride

When I first began learning rope bondage, I got very amped about getting to play with others and show them my new skill. Having been strictly a rope bottom in my twenties, I got excited at the prospect of finally getting to ‘turn the tables’ and tie up hot men myself. And sure enough, that’s how … Continue reading →

The Pup Thing

The Pup Thing

Yes, after being strictly a handler for several years, it happened. Out of the blue, I found myself wanting to be a pup myself. I wanted to get on all fours with my leather mitts locked on my fists, my knee pads snugly in place, a collar on my neck and a tail in my … Continue reading →

Rope-shaming

Rope-shaming

Ugh – major pet peeve of mine. A few weeks ago we decided to get to know our local leather community here in Virginia Beach, and went to their appointed night at the local bar. The leather group was doing a fundraiser for the local food bank, so we came equipped with canned goods as well as … Continue reading →

Upcoming event: ROPECRAFT! Feb, 19-21

Upcoming event: ROPECRAFT! Feb, 19-21

For those of you who are looking to refine your skills with rope bondage, or maybe rope is something you never understood because it seemed like one of those types of kink play that simply ‘takes too long’, I want to tell you about an exciting event coming up in Austin TX, called ROPECRAFT , presented … Continue reading →

Kink Alchemy

Kink Alchemy

Back when I lived in Toronto I was in a relationship with a man who deemed himself a FOODIE. For those of you unfamiliar with this label, it’s more or less a person who has become a connoisseur of food to the point of ‘fetishizing’ the flavors and the way they interact with one another. … Continue reading →